Okay so let me start off by saying yowza! If you like pain the Bad Kitty bondage candle is going to light your sexual fire. For me the joy I get from pain is actually in the relief I feel after. I’m not an anomaly in that, but all kinksters areRead More →
Pegging has become a lot more common over recent years and has taken the world of sex by storm! It’s a fantasy I’ve had for a while so my latest purchase of sex toys included a beginners strap-on. All I needed to make the fantasy a reality. Finally I’ve joinedRead More →
Most people experienced in BDSM know what their hard and soft limits are. And they know the limits of their partner. But if someone’s new to BDSM or are vanilla, they aren’t likely to have acknowledged their limits. However, it’s important to know what yours and your partner’s limits are.Read More →
*Trigger Warning* Everyone has something that gets them going. For some that something is actually kinda dangerous. If I said not to do it, I’ve no doubt I’d get ignored. So rather than tell everyone to avoid dangerous sex, I decided to start a dangerous sex series. With an introductionRead More →
I’m a submissive. Granted I’m not the kinkiest sub you’re ever going to meet but I have my quirks. I enjoy things like spanking, restraints, gags and latex. I can have vanilla sex, sure, but could I only ever have vanilla sex? Could I give up kink? I never actually thoughtRead More →
Sometimes it seems like there is a fetish for almost everything. Since my sexuality is very rare I love sexual desires that make people unique, like me! As long as they’re enjoyed in a safe, legal and consensual way then weird fetishes are a thing to be proud of. I’m theRead More →
A lot of people find hair sexy. However, some have a larger sexual desire for hair. Their hair fetish can involve head hair, pubic hair, chest hair, underarm hair, facial hair or fur. As with all fetishes a person commonly has a certain type within their fetish. For instance, theyRead More →
We’ve all had that friend that doesn’t need an excuse to pull a mooney. One moment you’re all having a social drink and the next there’s a bum glaring back at you. Okay, so I admit since surpassing my mid-twenties this has become less frequent. Some of those guys (andRead More →
Having a foot fetish is actually quite common, especially for men. It’s just like the way many people feel about boobs and bums, but people with a foot fetish feel that way about feet. Just because someone has a foot fetish does not mean they are attracted to all feet.Read More →
You have a very naughty sub who has failed to do as they are told. How do you punish your sub and remind them who is in charge? How do you teach them a lesson and make sure they won’t misbehave again? Here are 8 things you can do to getRead More →
Discovering that I was an autoandrophilia took time. I knew my desires were different to the ‘standard’ but there really wasn’t much information on it available online. Why did I fantasize about having a male body? Shouldn’t I be fantasizing about having sex with a man, not actually being aRead More →